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Archive for June, 2008

I will admit it. I am SCARED of the dentist. I had some early trauma with dental work and proceeded to ignore my teeth (besides the usual brushing and flossing) during my 20s and ended up with lots of major work in my 30s (yep, you guessed it, due to the general avoiding of the [...]

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Sweet boy left to go home to Austin this morning. He left me this comment on my blog: Thank you a lot mom. I had an awesome time this summer and will miss you a lot.  I can’t wait to see you when you come to visit in October! I love you and already miss [...]

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Sweet boy leaves Friday to return home to Texas where he lives with his Dad and Step-mom. I wrote a post last week about how we can not protect our children from pain. The reverse is also true. As mothers, we are as vulnerable as our love is deep. People often ask me (when I [...]

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We are currently enjoying the family bed (co-sleeping) with the monkey. As you might remember, we have had some challenges with sleep and found a solution that works for all of us. Sharing sleep does not work for all families. As a coach for moms, I always recommend finding the rhythm that works for every [...]

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You might remember the post I wrote a few months back about Sweet boy and World of Warcraft. He is visiting for the summer and parked at our kitchen table, head-set on, gaming till about 2 AM most days. Sweet boy will be 16 in a few weeks. He is an engaging, tender and cool [...]

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Since my post a couple of days ago about protecting our children from pain, I have had several comments/emails questioning this line: It begins so innocuously. We offer the breast every time our babe is upset instead of supporting them in processing their feelings. First, I want to reiterate my position on mothering: I believe [...]

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In my post last week about Sweet boy, I said this: We can not protect our children from pain. I truly believe this statement. It has taken me many years of guilt, striving, and lying to myself to get there. If you think you can protect your precious babes from the pain of the human [...]

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There is almost nothing that gets me shaking in my shoes like intolerance. My need for and love of autonomy and self-expression are vital, breathing aspects of my being. When a person, institution or group refuses to acknowledge the FACT that individuals have unique life situations and a right to choose and express their perspectives, [...]

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Sweet boy’s plane was late. I wrote this blog post on a white butter-smeared bagel wrapper while I snacked on a crusty multi-grained bagel and a steaming cup of Honeybush tea. I remember when waiting for a delayed plane at the airport was more a chore than a spa vacation. Now, sipping sweet tea and [...]

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Sweet boy’s plane lands in PDX in one hour. He lives in Austin, Texas with his Dad and Step-mom. We have been journeying back and forth to each other for six years now. The last time I saw him (early April) I was shocked by his deep voice, the mature glint in his eyes, the [...]

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